(1) . . . I'd like to see some of these models downsized to more usable sizes. From the reviews I've read, while they may be anatomically correct, which is cool, they end up being potentially unusable.
(2) Most women say they're too large and if they won't even fit the average pussy, I can't imagine what you would do with them anally without damaging yourself.
(3) Keep the "real" styling but make them the circumference of the average or somewhat larger HUMAN penis.
(4) As I'd like to introduce my GF to these in a pleasurable way (and she's no size queen), I'm afraid the huge knot would be a total turn off and discourage her .
(5) Please ladies, tell Zeta what dimensions you'd like to have made. ...
Okie-dokie zooooz. Sorry this is so long, but you made your points, and as a woman, I’m going to answer them. First of all, you don’t specify your gender, but I’m guessing you’re a guy, maybe early 20’s. If I’m wrong about your gender/age, I apologize now. But, right or wrong, you need to know more about how female bodies are built, and what they’re capable of doing. So, get yourself to the following website pronto, and learn the things you
should know about female and male anatomy!
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(1) - Unfortunately, when it comes to pleasure, we can’t just go with an average or the “lowest common denominator” to determine sizes of exotic toys. It’s just not possible for even most of them to be “useable” by every person in every way. Hence, different sizes and shapes exist, to satisfy the vaginal, anal, and oral needs of customers. As a woman who uses toys in all three orifices, I say “YIPPEE!” to that. It’s fair and reasonable. And it’s not like there aren’t plenty of small toys here at Zeta! In fact, Bear makes more genuinely small toys, than any other exotic toy manufacturer. If you didn’t know that, it might be because you misread the measurements, which I’ve done myself. Check them again.
(2) - I’d appreciate it if you didn’t presume to speak for those “most women” you mentioned. I’m one of them, and you don’t represent my point of view. Nor do you represent the POV of most of the females who have reviewed toys here on Zeta. Except for Thor and Gryphon, there is hardly a silicone toy - or even many gel ones here - that haven’t been reviewed and/or endorsed by females. I myself have reviewed Raptor (a large gel toy) most enthusiastically. FYI, I am NOT a size queen, nor can I take the full length of Raptor.
But I do know how to get aroused, and use whatever length of the toy I CAN accommodate, to great effect. It’s the same with the large toys I have from other manufacturers. If the toy is thick enough to provide good stimulation, I don’t care if I can take his full length or not. I’ll still give him a try, and maybe buy one.
It would help to know what YOU mean by “too large”. Do you mean
Length or
Girth? It’s true that there is an “end” to the vaginal canal, which varies depending on arousal, pelvic depth, and angle of use. (Ex: Her vagina will be longer in Basic Missionary, than in Missionary with Legs Over Shoulders). But there is no such “fixed ending” when it comes to anal sex. So vaginal users want shorter toys, and anal users of both genders want toys to be longer (and often thicker) to give the satisfaction we seek there. And if you REALLY don’t know how we could use “them anally without damaging yourself”, then I have several books I can recommend to fill the gaping holes in your sexual knowledge base.
(3) - If we wanted toys that were shaped or sized like human penises, we would be shopping at regular sex toy stores, and buying human dildos. It is just not possible to get all the elements we want: Head, Shaft, Knot, Space-after-Knot, and Base) into a toy the size you’ve requested. The toy would look and feel unnatural at best, and be totally unsatisfying at worst.
But honestly…. If you want an exotic toy that’s the size of an average human penis, they ARE here. You need to look more carefully. Zeta has more genuinely small toys, than any other exotic site I’ve seen.
If you want “small”, then get Mr Pluggit!! His shape is GREAT for stimulating the G-spot as a dildo, he’s short enough to use as a plug in either orifice, and he’s an outstanding practice toy to develop her “oral skills”. Even in the hard firmness, his smooth, soft texture feels great! The same goes for Euro Ruff Jr, another SMALL toy. If neither of those suit you, try Micro Rider or Pecos the Pint-Sized Pony, Boxie the Fox, or Silicone Kit Fox. He’s the same girth as Boxie - just slightly longer.
(4) - I understand your desire to introduce your girlfriend to toys, but you need to understand some things about women’s bodies. The accurate term is… “she’s no size queen
YET!” Women’s vaginas are an elastic tube of muscles. Like other muscles in the body, they can be exercised, thereby becoming strong, flexible, and elastic. UNLESS her partner frightens or intimidates a young woman with this “girls must stay small to be tight bullshit”, she will be just fine. Doing her Kegel exercises - not the size of her toys - is what keeps a woman’s vagina snug and healthy.
“Taking the knot”, is all about arousal and relaxation. But, many young women are still unsure about their sexuality, and anxious about how their partner feels about their skills and responses. This can make it difficult for her to reach her highest possible level of arousal. The more aroused a woman is, the more relaxed, more flexible, and LONGER her vagina becomes. Stop assuming she can’t handle something, and help her handle it instead! Treat a dildo like your dick. Arouse her
before you use it, instead of expecting the toy to do the arousing for you. Or use a vibe or other stimulation while toying, to keep her pleasure at a high level - most women don’t climax from vaginal stimulation alone.
None of the toys I mentioned above have “huge knots” that will frighten or discourage your girlfriend. They are ALL smaller than the stretch she would get from even the smallest speculum during her annual pelvic exam at her Gynecologist’s office. All that’s necessary for her to take any of these toys I’ve mentioned, is for you to get down to business and stimulate her with lots of foreplay, oral sex, and fingering, gradually stretching her until she’s wild and ready. And if she can’t relax enough with you to do that, then you two need to do more talking and less fooling around, until she IS more comfortable with (and ready for) Sex.
(5) - I HAVE told Zeta what dimensions I want toys to be. But other manufacturers already make many of those toy styles and shapes. Rather than have Bear “reinvent the wheel”, I shop everywhere to find toys that suit me.
