Are you gay if... ?

[Matsi]

If you let a female hump you with a strap on, is that considered gay?  

This question just came into my head while watching an older episode of Weeds.  

[Snow Fox]

Honestly... No.!
Gay is same sex (IMO)
I let me wife hump me  She loves to do it... its kinda a power thing, which btw is smexy, but I have no desire to have a guy do the same thing. I like exploring anal sex, its natural.
As doctor Ruth once said, "any man that denies himself a prostate massage, is denying himself the best orgasms of his life!" lol I love that crazy lil old lady
this is all my opinion though

[icey_kitsune]

personally i would say your only gay if you actually have romantic and sexual feelings for another person of the same sex. experimentation among same sex partners is normal so just going out and having random sex with a guy does not nessecarily make you gay. its more or less what you consider yourself, if you only like guys because you cant see yourself having true feelings for a female then you probably are gay, but if you dont have feelings for guys then your straight. Bi is just between those.

~Icey_Kitsune

[savanni]

I agree with both of you on that front. personally i feel that being humped by a strapon doesn't really make you gay or bi, but you just enjoy the feelings that are given by something stuck up your butt. I know quite a few straight guys that love to stick things up there o.o... but its mostly the feelings that you get when having it done, plus it adds a whole new dimension when someone else is doing it, and even more so when its a woman. mmm boobs on the back while getting humped *drools*

[FallenWolf]

So well, i am defenitely not gay, but i like the idea and the feeling.
Just having fun with a toy does not make me gay, no way

[Taka]

I have to agree, just because a toy is in you, that's not some sign that you're gay. There's enough nerve endings there that I can't imagine sex without a little assplay at least (on both sides). I've had experiences with strap-ons, prostate massages, fingering, licking, etc, and none of it made me want to trade my partners in for a man. I mean, gay guys give a lot of handjobs and blowjobs, but I don't consider those gay activities either.

I think we're at a point culturally where the line between gay and straight is very blurry, and for me, its the desire for a relationship with someone of the same sex that makes you bisexual or gay, not the physical activity. For me, guys are great as friends, but I can only see having a relationship with a woman.

[savanni]

I have to agree, just because a toy is in you, that's not some sign that you're gay. There's enough nerve endings there that I can't imagine sex without a little assplay at least (on both sides). I've had experiences with strap-ons, prostate massages, fingering, licking, etc, and none of it made me want to trade my partners in for a man. I mean, gay guys give a lot of handjobs and blowjobs, but I don't consider those gay activities either.

I think we're at a point culturally where the line between gay and straight is very blurry, and for me, its the desire for a relationship with someone of the same sex that makes you bisexual or gay, not the physical activity. For me, guys are great as friends, but I can only see having a relationship with a woman.

me im bi so i dont mind relationships on either team, but i agree that handjobs and blowjobs really arnt that gay when you think about it. its just helping out that other person.

[shifukukan]

i think human sexuality is extremely fluid, and society in general can be too limiting on identifying everything with gay or straight or bi, no in betweens.

personally, if it feels good, and its not harming anyone, and your partner is ok with it, who cares what the general public might think of it.

i don't think it makes you "gay" as the tailhole is an extremely erogenous zone ^_^

[raynenexen]

The general rule for being gay was quoted to me the last time this question came up and it says "Your not gay unless you go all the way." "...all the way." implying actual sexual intercourse with another male, assuming that you as well are a male.