Well of course not everyone is the same!
I wasn't implying that everyone WAS. Just saying that the vagina isn't but so long so many woman say that they can't take quite so much length. Not saying ALL women are that way. I know women who have no problem with 8-9 inches...some even 10.
I figured I should sound off, just to present the other side of things. I'm just trying to let more information out to help round out the picture.
Strangely, the Gryphon made me notice that I really seem to be able to go deep and like it there, even if the measurements looked insane at first. I think that part of the "scare factor" for some women and men alike is just the measurements on some of these toys. For example, Akita's knot is bigger than my fist at it's widest point.
So, yes, I can see why it would come up that someone might want a similarly shaped toy with a nice longer shaft, but without the "scary factor" of needing to be able to take a fist to fully use it.
Wow.. I really want to know how they are able to take 8 or 9 inches.. i could see that being beneficial ^.^ does practice really help THAT much, or is it something only some women can do, or that is easier for women who had kids? I have a boyfriend who would be very happy if i could manage 8.5...
It's mostly a matter of practice, I think. There may be some genetic factors, but training yourself usually helps. I've never had kids (don't want any) and generally have had no problem. The training is surprisingly similar to the Male training, from what I understand.
Take your time and get really turned on. I find that the more aroused you get, the more the muscles relax and the more things can stretch. Lube also helps. From there, start where you are comfortable size-wise and work your way up. As your body is fully able to take a toy, move on to a bigger toy
in the same session. If it feels "too big", don't worry, just try again another time and enjoy what feels right right now.
Your body may not want to let things go deep right away or even every night once you start getting "better at it", but regular practice will help you get there in the long run. Even when you get to the point of being able to take seven inches or even a foot, you can still enjoy smaller toys. I may like it deep, but sometimes my body is happy with a smaller toy, too! Smaller toys also are awesome for warm-ups and personal teasing.
