Well, the color question I know I can answer. The color shown is the "natural" coloration. It's a bit confusing, they should perhaps be in the same dropdown, but there it is. The black option refers then to the base, I think. Really, the extra money is for the extra work of the split coloration, not any of the colors actually used.
As for firmness, I'm a fan of hard. But then, I'm also a guy. I could ask my wife to weigh in on the matter when she gets home. She's not a big fan of the Helmutt as it's a tad too small for her liking; the Akita ('s knot) is a tad too big, unfortunately. They were ordered in Hard and Medium, respectively.
I don't think it'll be that much a problem, the toys don't seem to "flop" that much. They do waggle and wobble a bit if you shake them, but holding the Helmutt strait out has the tip dropping about 10-15 degrees from flat. The Akita - longer and heavier, with more drag from gravity - droops about 20 degrees or so, by my guess. Both toys can be easily bent back upon themselves without much effort - the Helmutt with a single hand.
I've not experienced any problems of popping out using the toys anally, though I'm more for the knot than the ride. They can be a bit squirmy and reluctant to enter, but once in it's pretty clear sailing. But once again, guy, so it's a different sort of hole. I've also not really tried much while lying on my back... actually, I should get my wife to play with me tonight

Could use a warm-up for our upcoming anniversary.
